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Talking to Kids About War
by Amy Neiman, LMSW
Finding the right way to speak with a child or teenager about death, war or terrible uncertainty is not easy. It is our job as parents to reassure our children even when we ourselves are feeling vulnerable. We want to be truthful but not give them more information than they need or can digest. We want to create a feeling of safety but also instill in them an understanding of our imperfect world.
It is a difficult balance, and it can be helpful to have a few general guidelines. Below are some tips to guide you in these conversations.
A friend told me that one of the scariest parts of a crisis is the lack of control we have as bystanders. This is very true, but we do have control of how we navigate the conversation with our children. We can validate their feelings and give them time to express their fears and ask questions.
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